Looking closer at resist and refuse dynamics can help us to move beyond the potentially loaded concepts of parental alienation or estrangement.

In a recent podcast recorded live at the Pacifica Conference, Debra Parker, accredited family law and dispute resolution specialist, shared valuable insights on supporting families where a child is refusing to spend time with a parent.

Debra emphasised the importance of early therapeutic intervention and the need to find out why a child resists contact rather than making assumptions. “Language totally matters,” she said, highlighting that thoughtful communication can restore balance, build trust, and guide families toward healthy outcomes.

At Parker Coles Curtis, our team is passionate about helping parents navigate high-conflict situations, connecting them with psychologists, social workers, and other specialists to support both parents and children through crisis.

This episode is a must-listen for other family lawyers or anyone facing complex parenting challenges.

🎧 Tune in to gain perspective, compassion, and strategies that can make a real difference.