Mediation may help in reducing costs and stress and it can also promote a spirit of cooperation, allowing parties to reach amicable agreements that reflect the best interests of all involved, especially children.

For individuals wishing to engage Parker Coles Curtis to represent them, it is important to realise that we cannot also act as a mediator. This is because the mediator must be neutral for both individuals.

We encourage our clients to utilise mediation and will recommend other independent mediators to fulfil this role to progress their matters effectively.

Our mediation practice

We offer an independent mediation service to individuals who are in dispute to help them reach mutually acceptable agreements.

There are various ways that we can conduct mediation, but in essence we listen to all parties’ points of view in a safe environment, improving the negotiating process and minimising possible intimidation. We work with both parties to communicate effectively and resolve conflicts.

Some of the benefits of mediation are:

  • Cost-effective: generally, mediation is less expensive than going to court.
  • Faster resolution: mediation can resolve disputes faster than the traditional court process.
  • Confidential: unlike court proceedings, mediation is private and confidential.
  • Control: parties have more control over the outcome, as agreements are mutually negotiated.

Individuals do not need a lawyer to participate in mediation however, if the individual does have a lawyer, their lawyer will work with us (as the mediator) in preparation for mediation.

Debra Parker - book with a mediation specialist

Accredited as a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner, Debra is passionate about mediation and collaborative approaches to help individuals to resolve matters outside of court. She has completed thousands of mediations throughout her career and understands that sensible solutions deliver the best outcomes for everyone involved.

Debra is regarded as one of the leaders of the legal profession by colleagues, as recognised by the national Doyle’s guide of the best lawyers in the country, which gives her ‘preeminent' family law status in the ACT and ‘leading’ status as a mediator.

She is the only lawyer in Canberra with a Specialist Accreditation in two areas (family law and dispute resolution). With an 80% success rate for mediation, Debra is available for half and full day mediation.

What Debra's colleagues say about her

"I have been in practice since 1982. For much of the time I have had matters against Debra Parker and other family lawyers. I have used her as a mediator and been involved with matters where she acted for parties in those mediations. While a valued colleague she is a worthy opponent. Her judgment is seasoned as is her experience and knowledge of the area she works in. I have just retired and referred a former client to her. After some consideration, she has what it takes for difficult matters involving difficult people." - Ken Hubert

Read more about Debra.

To book Debra for mediation or for mediation rates, please email hello@parkercolescurtis.com.au or call us on 02 5114 2660.

Family dispute resolution (FDR) is a structured form of mediation specifically designed for families going through separation. Debra Parker is an accredited family dispute resolution practitioner, having completed the rigorous training required to qualify to practice in this area. Debra facilitates discussions between both parties to help them communicate effectively and work toward mutually acceptable agreements, particularly around parenting arrangements and property settlements. The key distinction between FDR and general mediation is that only accredited FDR practitioners are authorised to issue a Section 60I certificate, which is required before most parenting order applications can be made in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia. If you are unsure which process applies to your situation, we can help you understand your options.

In most cases, yes. Under the Family Law Act, parties are generally required to make a genuine effort to resolve parenting disputes through family dispute resolution before applying to the court for parenting orders. This requirement applies to parenting matters specifically, not property or financial disputes. If FDR is attempted but does not result in an agreement, an accredited FDR practitioner can issue a Section 60I certificate, which must accompany a parenting order application to the court. We recommend confirming the current validity period with us directly, as requirements can vary by circumstance.There are exceptions to this requirement, including situations involving extreme urgency, family violence or child abuse, or where it may not be appropriate or safe to participate in FDR. We can advise you on whether an exemption might apply to your individual circumstances before you take any steps.

As opposed to the specific Family Dispute Resolution process, lawyer-assisted mediation, is another option to consider to try to resolve issues or disputes that arise after a relationship breakdown. All of our lawyers are qualified to conduct lawyer-assisted mediation. We use mediation to help separated families resolve a broad range of disputes, including parenting arrangements and children's arrangements, property settlements, dividing property, spousal maintenance, child support such as payments of private school fees or payment of medical bills and other financial matters arising from a separation. Mediation can also be used to develop a parenting plan that sets out how separated families will share time and responsibility for their children going forward. It is not limited to disputes that arise immediately after separation; we also assist parties who need to revisit or vary arrangements that are already in place.

Mediation is a confidential process. Under the Family Law Act, communications made during family dispute resolution and mediation are protected and cannot be used as evidence in court proceedings. It is an offence to disclose confidential FDR communications. There are limits to this protection, however. Where information disclosed during FDR raises reasonable grounds to believe a child has been abused or is at risk of abuse, we are required by law to report that information regardless of the confidential nature of the process. Confidentiality protections under the Family Law Act also apply specifically to accredited FDR practitioners.

Mediation is significantly less expensive than litigation in almost every case. Contested court proceedings in family law matters can cost considerably more than mediation, particularly in complex or high-conflict matters. We offer both half and full day mediation sessions and our rates are available on request. Even where there is a cost involved, resolving your matter through mediation is almost always far more cost effective than running a contested matter through the family court. Our Director, Debra Parker is an accomplished, award-winning experienced mediator who is available to conduct mediations.

When proposing a mediator to you we look at accreditation and specific family law experience, which are the two things that matter most. Accreditation ensures the practitioner meets the standards required under the Family Law Act and is authorised to issue Section 60I certificates required. Beyond accreditation, the mediator's experience with the specific issues in your matter, whether that is parenting disputes, property settlements, or high-conflict situations, makes a real difference to the outcome.

Debra Parker is the only lawyer in Canberra with specialist accreditation in both family law and dispute resolution as well as having been accredited as a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner, and has an 80% mediation success rate across many thousands of mediations throughout her career. She holds leading status in family law and as a mediator under the Doyle's Guide, and is available for both half and full day mediations. To book Debra or enquire about rates, please contact our office directly.

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